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The official website of Mistress Roma Laverna, a professional Dominatrix based in Melbourne, Australia.

Passionate about Dominance, sissification, bondage, discipline and sensualism, Ms Roma offers a unique and approachable experience for those seeking power exchange, and guidance.

WHO IS ROMA?

I’m drawn to the bizarre and untouchable - absurdity that’s as intriguing as it is humorous. Wit and a sadistic streak pull me toward the taboo - fuel for my own peculiar fascination and gratification.

I also delight in scenes centred around energy exchange, whether through breath-work, sensory activation, or deprivation.

As a Pleasure Seeker, I’m drawn to sensual exploration rooted in power play, connection, and rhythm, forging unique dynamics.

You'll find that, while Dominant, I'm nurturing, open-minded, down-to-earth, and full of vibrant energy. I approach My passions and career with deep care and intention, with a heavy focus on safety and hygiene.

Beneath this initially inviting exterior lies a dark, delightfully depraved mind.

I especially cherish sessions with those seeking long-term D/s dynamics - individuals who value mutual care, prioritise my well-being, and are eager to explore deeply and intentionally.

Outside of the Dungeon, I relish in the arts.

I am a sucker for travelling, swimming, camping, and dancing with friends.

EDUCATION?

I have been a sexuality professional since 2021 and I have trained in Classical Domination since 2022, having invested deeply, learning from a variety of BDSM Professionals.

My journey in 2022 began with Ann O. Nomis’ The Seven Realm Arts course, followed by one-on-one classes under the internationally renowned Mistress Deva Venera in Berlin, which completely launched My interest in Pro BDSM.

Since, I’ve had the privilege of training with several respected Australian Mistresses, such as Mistress Ayla Reid, Mx Electra Amore, and Mistress Estelle Leon, with some lessons being one-off and some ongoing.

I have participated in various collaborative workshops. Alongside these experiences, I have completed countless hours of both online and in-person training and practice, continually honing my craft.

Additional Workshop Intruction: Oz Kink Fest Weekend Intensives, Peer Rope Melbourne, Breath Play with Mistress Danielle Rubber, workshops and skillshares at Studio of Secrets with Mistress Zoe Demure, PDAT Disability Awareness Training, Seven Days of Domination, Kink Academy, and first-aid certificate yearly training.

In private classes we have covered areas such electro play, mummification + sensory deprivation, bondage, tease + denial, ethical FinDom, CBT, ballbusting, heavy latex + rubber, cleaning + safety, slave dynamics, corporeal punishment, and MedFet.

BACKGROUND?

My journey into kink began early. As a child, I was captivated by exploitation films, watching them on repeat and idolising the fierce, rocker women they portrayed.

As a product of the modern age, I dug up pornography and began experimenting early on, consistently gravitating toward darker, kinkier material.

My FemDom career centers on liberating shame for both parties, creating a space where we are mutually empowered through our shared kinks.

Fiercely bisexual, I bring a queer lens to My approach — with deep respect for outsiders, outlaws, and those on the edges, especially within the leathersex/dyke communities.

With a background in fine art, I consider Myself an aesthete, and I bring that artistic sensibility into every aspect of my work.

I am a rebel. While I enjoy being slick and well-presented, there’s a raw, filthy streak in Me, ready to unleash perversion!

I collect kink ephemera, ranging from literature and magazines to gear, and volunteer at an archive with a focus on kink history, viewing this work as both a personal passion and cultural preservation.

To Me, eroticism is not only arousing, but also a powerful lens through which to understand human connection, intimacy, and power. BDSM, in all its vastness, is a genuine and enduring path.

WHO SHOULD I EXPECT?

An authentic, erotically charged, deeply curious Dominant Femme.

While I can be very strict, I radiate a nurturing presence that will ease any initial nerves you might have walking into these walls.

Relax, it’s all going to be okay!

I am interested in a variety of Kinks and fetishes and I’m always open to unlocking more, so don’t hesitate to enquire about something that is not listed here.

SESSION LOCATIONS?

I conduct sessions from My discreet Dungeon on the Northside, around a 15-20 minute drive from Melbourne’s CBD.

I can also conduct outcall sessions at a hotel or abode for $50 minimum travel fee.

If you wish to play for 3+ hours but you are located outside of Naarm/Melbourne, I adore FTMY sessions.

Otherwise, you can find Me online for text and call sessions.